"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone approached a hot girl in their building?

Dole

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I was wondering if anyone would share a story or two of how they approached a hot girl that lives in their apartment building?? How did you approach her, what did you say to her and how you carried on after you met her...

Open to hear some suggestions as well...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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xdreamz

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I would pay attention to the body gestures you're giving off. Approaching head on you want to face her square with obviously something indirect. You're not gona say "Hey wana be my friend?" but you want to make it as innocent of an approach as possible. Say she's sitting down on the grass and you're walking by, ask her if she's ok sitting there. while still going on your merry way you might want to throw her something else indirect. some good ideas are making her want to help you with something, asking about her immediate surrounding and how it relates to them for example "is that your car?", anything will work if you're skilled enough even the old school "do you know how to get from point A to point B?" as long as you continue to drive the conversation towards her.
 

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I don't live in an apartment building anymore, but when I did, I approached every new woman I saw. Just smile, walk right up, put out your hand and say something like, "You must be new, hi my name's Dole." or "I know I haven't seen you around here before, cuz I woulda remembered you" or "How are you? My name's Dole. Did you move in recently?" Or whatever.

Ask her what she likes to do for fun. Then while she's answering, cut in and ask her if she'd like to chill with you sometime and watch a movie in your crib. Or hers, it doesn't matter. Yours would be better though.

Don't bother asking her on a date. I never did that sh1t. They would come over, and we'd talk and watch maybe 20 minutes of the movie and we'd be fvcking.

When you talk to her for the first time, let her understand that you're interested in her for more than just hanging out. Reach out and touch her shoulder or upper arm at least once during the short conversation. I'm assuming you know how to do that stuff without her wanting to pepper spray you.
 

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Well I kinda cheated this approach. My sister was chatting it up with this new chick (HB8). So what I did was approached them and said "you shouldn't talk to her, she is a bad influence" then picked her up, threw her over my shoulder and sat her down at a table and got her #.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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