"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone approached a hot girl in their building?

Dole

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I was wondering if anyone would share a story or two of how they approached a hot girl that lives in their apartment building?? How did you approach her, what did you say to her and how you carried on after you met her...

Open to hear some suggestions as well...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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xdreamz

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I would pay attention to the body gestures you're giving off. Approaching head on you want to face her square with obviously something indirect. You're not gona say "Hey wana be my friend?" but you want to make it as innocent of an approach as possible. Say she's sitting down on the grass and you're walking by, ask her if she's ok sitting there. while still going on your merry way you might want to throw her something else indirect. some good ideas are making her want to help you with something, asking about her immediate surrounding and how it relates to them for example "is that your car?", anything will work if you're skilled enough even the old school "do you know how to get from point A to point B?" as long as you continue to drive the conversation towards her.
 

Galactus

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I don't live in an apartment building anymore, but when I did, I approached every new woman I saw. Just smile, walk right up, put out your hand and say something like, "You must be new, hi my name's Dole." or "I know I haven't seen you around here before, cuz I woulda remembered you" or "How are you? My name's Dole. Did you move in recently?" Or whatever.

Ask her what she likes to do for fun. Then while she's answering, cut in and ask her if she'd like to chill with you sometime and watch a movie in your crib. Or hers, it doesn't matter. Yours would be better though.

Don't bother asking her on a date. I never did that sh1t. They would come over, and we'd talk and watch maybe 20 minutes of the movie and we'd be fvcking.

When you talk to her for the first time, let her understand that you're interested in her for more than just hanging out. Reach out and touch her shoulder or upper arm at least once during the short conversation. I'm assuming you know how to do that stuff without her wanting to pepper spray you.
 

Mr. Fantastic

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Well I kinda cheated this approach. My sister was chatting it up with this new chick (HB8). So what I did was approached them and said "you shouldn't talk to her, she is a bad influence" then picked her up, threw her over my shoulder and sat her down at a table and got her #.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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