"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone a Financial Advisor?

oakraiderz2

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Anyone? Im thinking about giving it a shot after i graduate in may. I know it has the potential to be lucrative, but im just concerned about getting clients and starting from the bottom and building your business up. If anyone has any info id appreciate it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ken785

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oakraiderz2 said:
Anyone? Im thinking about giving it a shot after i graduate in may. I know it has the potential to be lucrative, but im just concerned about getting clients and starting from the bottom and building your business up. If anyone has any info id appreciate it.
I have also thought about this after i graduate. I have heard it is an extremely stressful job. You are on commission pay and you wont make anything for a while until you build up clientele.

You need to get your Series 7 license. Its just like a stock broker job since you sell stocks too. Only problem with this job is that a lot of people dont last and end up quitting, its not for everyone...thats why the job is advertised all the time..some companies dont even require a degree or anything. Its a sales job.

But if you believe you can work on a commission and are good with numbers and people you should be successful. Just believe in yourself. The sky's the limit.

Its a great job if you want to learn how investing and money works. :)
 

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Ken785 said:
I have also thought about this after i graduate. I have heard it is an extremely stressful job. You are on commission pay and you wont make anything for a while until you build up clientele.

You need to get your Series 7 license. Its just like a stock broker job since you sell stocks too. Only problem with this job is that a lot of people dont last and end up quitting, its not for everyone...thats why the job is advertised all the time..some companies dont even require a degree or anything. Its a sales job.

But if you believe you can work on a commission and are good with numbers and people you should be successful. Just believe in yourself. The sky's the limit.

Its a great job if you want to learn how investing and money works. :)
The thought of working on commission doesnt sound too appealing. I have more than enoough student loans to payback to rely only on commission. I also thought about doing insurance too.
 

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When i graduated I tried it. Industry probably has a 95% failure rate.

Think about it. Who is going to give you their money to invest as a 23 yr old college graduate ?

On top of it, there's Scottrade, TD ameritrade, etc in which people can invest their money w/o the help of a financial advisor.

If u go the FA route, u will mostly be selling life insurance and annuitiies, selling be the key word.

It is POSSIBLE to make money, but u will definitely be dirt poor for years until u build up a client base.

I started as a FA, got my licenses, then worked for a bank, and then quit to be a self-employeed daytrader.
 

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When i graduated I tried it. Industry probably has a 95% failure rate.

Think about it. Who is going to give you their money to invest as a 23 yr old college graduate ?

On top of it, there's Scottrade, TD ameritrade, etc in which people can invest their money w/o the help of a financial advisor.

If u go the FA route, u will mostly be selling life insurance and annuitiies, selling be the key word.

It is POSSIBLE to make money, but u will definitely be dirt poor for years until u build up a client base.

I started as a FA, got my licenses, then worked for a bank, and then quit to be a self-employeed daytrader.
Rich Dad, Poor Dad says work to learn..dont work for money.

So would you say the knowledge you gained from being a FA and the licenses you got were crucial to your success as a day trader now??

That means so you learned about investing and instead of trying to tell unwilling people to invest their money with you, you take your own advice to make money for yourself?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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