"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Anybody using Snapchat to game?

PimpOfTheSouth

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Just wondering if anybody is using to they're advantage. Also I was wondering if it something I should use to build repertoire or familiarity with a girl I just met and don't necessarily see on a daily basis? Im new to it but I know girl's love it and ive already heard of people hooking up through it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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El Payaso

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Lol. Snapchat.
 

PimpOfTheSouth

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Well obviously in person is better. But I mean experimenting with it couldn't hurt right?
 

El Payaso

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PimpOfTheSouth said:
Well obviously in person is better. But I mean experimenting with it couldn't hurt right?
Snapchat is purely for female attention wh0res. It's a woman's playground. At any given point in time, she's being hounded by dozens men trying to game on her and all they are providing is mindless entertainment for her as she laughs at their thirst and desperation while using it to show her girlfriends how pathetic they are.

Any time she needs a quick shot of validation, all she has to do is do a quick post to snapchat. Once she gets that validation, she rebuffs all of them.

Most social media is this way and I think it's useless for most men to play the social media game with women.

Unless the social media site or app is designated specifically for dating or hookups then it's a waste of time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bingo-Player

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Yea i use it often , gotten a bang out of it and plenty of naughty snaps

I think chicks open up on it a little better than texting because it notifies of screenshots

Well worth putting up with the attention whoring for me

I Also like the “chat” feature on it....... tells you exactly when they’ve read the message and when they are replying

Completely Removes that “perhaps she’s busy” factor
 

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I am. exhaust all resources.

I don't update my story often but when I do it's either something really interesting or funny. Females always say how "interesting" my life is and I've gotten a few nudes and lays out of it.

You anti social media guys need to stop. We know women use it for attention & validation, but that's the way the cookie crumbles and its not going to change any time soon.

So why not use it a lil bit if you can get a few lays out of it, I don't understand the beef. You don't have to be an Beta fūck AFC to use social media.
 

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SmooveMooves said:
I am. exhaust all resources.

I don't update my story often but when I do it's either something really interesting or funny. Females always say how "interesting" my life is and I've gotten a few nudes and lays out of it.

You anti social media guys need to stop. We know women use it for attention & validation, but that's the way the cookie crumbles and its not going to change any time soon.

So why not use it a lil bit if you can get a few lays out of it, I don't understand the beef. You don't have to be an Beta fūck AFC to use social media.

fully agreed

you can use social media like a chump , or you can use it like boss

like it or lump it , its not going anywhere .........

i dont know of a single woman who DOESN'T use social media , and a lot of them are using it to get laid

use it correctly and you can get laid too
 

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SmooveMooves said:
I am. exhaust all resources.

I don't update my story often but when I do it's either something really interesting or funny. Females always say how "interesting" my life is and I've gotten a few nudes and lays out of it.

You anti social media guys need to stop. We know women use it for attention & validation, but that's the way the cookie crumbles and its not going to change any time soon.

So why not use it a lil bit if you can get a few lays out of it, I don't understand the beef. You don't have to be an Beta fūck AFC to use social media.

Honestly my beef with social media besides the attention whoring is I think it makes you soft on cold approaching women...

"Hey let me get your facebook so I can orbit you and hopefully get a lay."

Besides that.. I am realitively poor.. I dont have alot of new cloths or toys.. I never go anywhere nice... besides the club...

I can't win the p1ss contest... so I stay away.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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El Payaso said:
Snapchat is purely for female attention wh0res. It's a woman's playground. At any given point in time, she's being hounded by dozens men trying to game on her and all they are providing is mindless entertainment for her as she laughs at their thirst and desperation while using it to show her girlfriends how pathetic they are.

Any time she needs a quick shot of validation, all she has to do is do a quick post to snapchat. Once she gets that validation, she rebuffs all of them.

Most social media is this way and I think it's useless for most men to play the social media game with women.

Unless the social media site or app is designated specifically for dating or hookups then it's a waste of time.

Yes, real DJ's should shun social media for all those reasons. Doing so takes power away from these attention wh0res. The less orbiters they have, the less narcissistic they'll be, it busts them back down to reality. They'll always have thirsty beta/omega orbiters, but never anything they REALLY want if you refuse to follow them on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, etc.
 

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Snapchat/other social media is not the way to get chicks. Like previously mentioned it all panders to attention wh0res, and it doesn't matter how you "game" the chicks it all works out the same. Keeping a distance with a chick via Snapchat/Instagram/Facebook/Twitter means nothing, the chicks only remember the validation you gave them, most of them don't even pay attention to who's saying what. Think about how bad a lot of women are at listening in person, do you really think they'll remember exactly what John Doe said to her March 26th on Instagram? If you aren't sending them crap on those sites, other guys always are.

I'm 19 (almost 20) and despite growing up in an era where social media is commonplace, I stay away from it, and seem to be one of the only guys in my area who doesn't orbit women with any of that garbage. Not to brag, but it works out in my favor fairly often. I follow what the DJ Bible talks about of keeping a distance, living your life for you, not going out seeking any chicks, and playing it smooth when there's a chance to talk. I never orbit, or bring up any social media garbage. When you're one of the only dudes not breathing down the girls neck, it makes a lot of them attracted, even the narcissistic ones who love social media will act interested. They obviously aren't worth it, but the quality chicks see that, and value you more because of it.

There was a girl I went out with last fall. We were in a class together, and I stuck to the DJ principles from this site. Meanwhile there was another dude in the class who wouldn't leave her alone, and he would Snapchat and "text game" her. Guess who she gravitated towards? My point is he thought he was being so smooth by orbiting her online and in person, but it killed any chances he could have had with her. I was probably one of the only guys who had the balls to flirt and ask her out in person, because all guys these days want to do everything through a fvckign computer/phone screen.
 

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From what I have observed, snapchat is for low quality women who just want attention.
 

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Zapp Brannigan said:
Snapchat/other social media is not the way to get chicks. Like previously mentioned it all panders to attention wh0res, and it doesn't matter how you "game" the chicks it all works out the same. Keeping a distance with a chick via Snapchat/Instagram/Facebook/Twitter means nothing, the chicks only remember the validation you gave them, most of them don't even pay attention to who's saying what. Think about how bad a lot of women are at listening in person, do you really think they'll remember exactly what John Doe said to her March 26th on Instagram? If you aren't sending them crap on those sites, other guys always are.

I'm 19 (almost 20) and despite growing up in an era where social media is commonplace, I stay away from it, and seem to be one of the only guys in my area who doesn't orbit women with any of that garbage. Not to brag, but it works out in my favor fairly often. I follow what the DJ Bible talks about of keeping a distance, living your life for you, not going out seeking any chicks, and playing it smooth when there's a chance to talk. I never orbit, or bring up any social media garbage. When you're one of the only dudes not breathing down the girls neck, it makes a lot of them attracted, even the narcissistic ones who love social media will act interested. They obviously aren't worth it, but the quality chicks see that, and value you more because of it.

There was a girl I went out with last fall. We were in a class together, and I stuck to the DJ principles from this site. Meanwhile there was another dude in the class who wouldn't leave her alone, and he would Snapchat and "text game" her. Guess who she gravitated towards? My point is he thought he was being so smooth by orbiting her online and in person, but it killed any chances he could have had with her. I was probably one of the only guys who had the balls to flirt and ask her out in person, because all guys these days want to do everything through a fvckign computer/phone screen.
Again, there's a right way to use social media, and a wrong way.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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