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Anybody using Snapchat to game?

PimpOfTheSouth

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Just wondering if anybody is using to they're advantage. Also I was wondering if it something I should use to build repertoire or familiarity with a girl I just met and don't necessarily see on a daily basis? Im new to it but I know girl's love it and ive already heard of people hooking up through it.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Lol. Snapchat.
 

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Well obviously in person is better. But I mean experimenting with it couldn't hurt right?
 

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PimpOfTheSouth said:
Well obviously in person is better. But I mean experimenting with it couldn't hurt right?
Snapchat is purely for female attention wh0res. It's a woman's playground. At any given point in time, she's being hounded by dozens men trying to game on her and all they are providing is mindless entertainment for her as she laughs at their thirst and desperation while using it to show her girlfriends how pathetic they are.

Any time she needs a quick shot of validation, all she has to do is do a quick post to snapchat. Once she gets that validation, she rebuffs all of them.

Most social media is this way and I think it's useless for most men to play the social media game with women.

Unless the social media site or app is designated specifically for dating or hookups then it's a waste of time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yea i use it often , gotten a bang out of it and plenty of naughty snaps

I think chicks open up on it a little better than texting because it notifies of screenshots

Well worth putting up with the attention whoring for me

I Also like the “chat” feature on it....... tells you exactly when they’ve read the message and when they are replying

Completely Removes that “perhaps she’s busy” factor
 

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I am. exhaust all resources.

I don't update my story often but when I do it's either something really interesting or funny. Females always say how "interesting" my life is and I've gotten a few nudes and lays out of it.

You anti social media guys need to stop. We know women use it for attention & validation, but that's the way the cookie crumbles and its not going to change any time soon.

So why not use it a lil bit if you can get a few lays out of it, I don't understand the beef. You don't have to be an Beta fūck AFC to use social media.
 

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SmooveMooves said:
I am. exhaust all resources.

I don't update my story often but when I do it's either something really interesting or funny. Females always say how "interesting" my life is and I've gotten a few nudes and lays out of it.

You anti social media guys need to stop. We know women use it for attention & validation, but that's the way the cookie crumbles and its not going to change any time soon.

So why not use it a lil bit if you can get a few lays out of it, I don't understand the beef. You don't have to be an Beta fūck AFC to use social media.

fully agreed

you can use social media like a chump , or you can use it like boss

like it or lump it , its not going anywhere .........

i dont know of a single woman who DOESN'T use social media , and a lot of them are using it to get laid

use it correctly and you can get laid too
 

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SmooveMooves said:
I am. exhaust all resources.

I don't update my story often but when I do it's either something really interesting or funny. Females always say how "interesting" my life is and I've gotten a few nudes and lays out of it.

You anti social media guys need to stop. We know women use it for attention & validation, but that's the way the cookie crumbles and its not going to change any time soon.

So why not use it a lil bit if you can get a few lays out of it, I don't understand the beef. You don't have to be an Beta fūck AFC to use social media.

Honestly my beef with social media besides the attention whoring is I think it makes you soft on cold approaching women...

"Hey let me get your facebook so I can orbit you and hopefully get a lay."

Besides that.. I am realitively poor.. I dont have alot of new cloths or toys.. I never go anywhere nice... besides the club...

I can't win the p1ss contest... so I stay away.
 

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El Payaso said:
Snapchat is purely for female attention wh0res. It's a woman's playground. At any given point in time, she's being hounded by dozens men trying to game on her and all they are providing is mindless entertainment for her as she laughs at their thirst and desperation while using it to show her girlfriends how pathetic they are.

Any time she needs a quick shot of validation, all she has to do is do a quick post to snapchat. Once she gets that validation, she rebuffs all of them.

Most social media is this way and I think it's useless for most men to play the social media game with women.

Unless the social media site or app is designated specifically for dating or hookups then it's a waste of time.

Yes, real DJ's should shun social media for all those reasons. Doing so takes power away from these attention wh0res. The less orbiters they have, the less narcissistic they'll be, it busts them back down to reality. They'll always have thirsty beta/omega orbiters, but never anything they REALLY want if you refuse to follow them on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, etc.
 

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Snapchat/other social media is not the way to get chicks. Like previously mentioned it all panders to attention wh0res, and it doesn't matter how you "game" the chicks it all works out the same. Keeping a distance with a chick via Snapchat/Instagram/Facebook/Twitter means nothing, the chicks only remember the validation you gave them, most of them don't even pay attention to who's saying what. Think about how bad a lot of women are at listening in person, do you really think they'll remember exactly what John Doe said to her March 26th on Instagram? If you aren't sending them crap on those sites, other guys always are.

I'm 19 (almost 20) and despite growing up in an era where social media is commonplace, I stay away from it, and seem to be one of the only guys in my area who doesn't orbit women with any of that garbage. Not to brag, but it works out in my favor fairly often. I follow what the DJ Bible talks about of keeping a distance, living your life for you, not going out seeking any chicks, and playing it smooth when there's a chance to talk. I never orbit, or bring up any social media garbage. When you're one of the only dudes not breathing down the girls neck, it makes a lot of them attracted, even the narcissistic ones who love social media will act interested. They obviously aren't worth it, but the quality chicks see that, and value you more because of it.

There was a girl I went out with last fall. We were in a class together, and I stuck to the DJ principles from this site. Meanwhile there was another dude in the class who wouldn't leave her alone, and he would Snapchat and "text game" her. Guess who she gravitated towards? My point is he thought he was being so smooth by orbiting her online and in person, but it killed any chances he could have had with her. I was probably one of the only guys who had the balls to flirt and ask her out in person, because all guys these days want to do everything through a fvckign computer/phone screen.
 

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From what I have observed, snapchat is for low quality women who just want attention.
 

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Zapp Brannigan said:
Snapchat/other social media is not the way to get chicks. Like previously mentioned it all panders to attention wh0res, and it doesn't matter how you "game" the chicks it all works out the same. Keeping a distance with a chick via Snapchat/Instagram/Facebook/Twitter means nothing, the chicks only remember the validation you gave them, most of them don't even pay attention to who's saying what. Think about how bad a lot of women are at listening in person, do you really think they'll remember exactly what John Doe said to her March 26th on Instagram? If you aren't sending them crap on those sites, other guys always are.

I'm 19 (almost 20) and despite growing up in an era where social media is commonplace, I stay away from it, and seem to be one of the only guys in my area who doesn't orbit women with any of that garbage. Not to brag, but it works out in my favor fairly often. I follow what the DJ Bible talks about of keeping a distance, living your life for you, not going out seeking any chicks, and playing it smooth when there's a chance to talk. I never orbit, or bring up any social media garbage. When you're one of the only dudes not breathing down the girls neck, it makes a lot of them attracted, even the narcissistic ones who love social media will act interested. They obviously aren't worth it, but the quality chicks see that, and value you more because of it.

There was a girl I went out with last fall. We were in a class together, and I stuck to the DJ principles from this site. Meanwhile there was another dude in the class who wouldn't leave her alone, and he would Snapchat and "text game" her. Guess who she gravitated towards? My point is he thought he was being so smooth by orbiting her online and in person, but it killed any chances he could have had with her. I was probably one of the only guys who had the balls to flirt and ask her out in person, because all guys these days want to do everything through a fvckign computer/phone screen.
Again, there's a right way to use social media, and a wrong way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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