"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anybody notice how chicks leave places as quickly as they can?

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I see this all the time. It used to happen at Uni lectures - the moment the professor finished off they'd race out the door as if they were busting for a piss. I'm not talking about those with me though, just the ones you see by themselves.

Cinemas too...the credits are up and BOOM out the door. I wanted to approach a table of girls after a taping of a TV show but once the producer said it was over I turned around only to see their dust. They probably raced to the car and straight off home.

It's really frustrating because sometimes this period is the only suitable time you can make a move.

I've been flirting and getting along with a hot girl at dancing classes, but last lesson I could barely believe it when I saw the door swinging closed before the applause for the teachers finished. There seems to be no other opportunity to secure the number or a date, let alone a casual drink afterwards.

Same at work: I'm at a call centre and the shifts end at 9pm. I was just closing a phonecall tonight when the clock struck nine. As I had a window seat I could see 5 or 6 chicks jostling for the doorway! The guys are more casual but still they are keen to escape, no one really talks. When do they fill in their frickin timesheets? I want to organise coffees with some of these girls but this behaviour is so antisocial I don't even feel like bothering.

Any ideas on how to handle this phenomena? Perhaps neghits or c+F lines when I next see them about why the leave so fast? Suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To slow them down at school knock any books they have or drinks they have out of their hand. That way they'll HAVE to stay around a little later.

That, or trip them.

Alexi
 

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I've noticed this too. You see a few good looking single girls in class or whatnot, next thing you know they're first to be out the door.


Who the hell knows why they do this
 

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Shoot them with a tranquiliser dart gun, just like you would in a safari
 

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this is funny because i was thinking about the same thing today, this hb8, was making EC, and all that twirling of her hiar while staring repetedly at me, smilling, the usuall stuff, when all of a sudden i looked down to pick my books when i looked up she's gone once class is over. then i said to myself i doubt these women reallt date men they want. since they never seem to create the chance to put themselves in approachable positions.

i know i wouldnt run after them like a dog, i aint desperate
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sorry, they're all in a hurry to make love with me. I apologize guys.
 

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a year ago for 2 semesters, i had class with this hb8...she was very cool and was down to earth, spoke to her a few times too.
of course she was always the first to zoom out the door as soon as the prof declared class over.

I think one time she said she had a lot of guy friends and was in the process of moving out of her ex's apartment. Of course after all that i bet she had a lot of personal problems...she did come from a rich family, yet she was a cool person.

somedays i'd see her walk into class looking like a bum like she just woke up. of course all she has is school and no job.

sad to say these type of girls only appear to show up for class cause they must, not cause they want to.
 
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