"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Anybody live in Manhattan NYC?

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I would have posted this in the 'anything else' section but it's urgent, so if you're a MOD Chill out for a minute.

I've got an interview in Manhattan on the 21st and two more on the 22nd. I'm gonna be arriving in New York via a megabus from Washington, DC on the 21st and it'd be awesome if I could stay with anybody who has a place in Manhattan for the night of the 21st. I'll sleep on the floor, i don't care. YOU DON'T HAVE TO FEED ME. All i need is a roof over my head on the 21st in manhattan. I'll split early in the morning.

C'mon boys help a fellow sosuaver out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TonyBaloney said:
Hey buddy,

Why the desperation? Cant afford a motel? I'll put in 10 dollars if you give a three paragraph long explanation, and I
Why the desperation? Cause I'm trying to become a comedian and I've worked my butt off in order to try to make it to NYC or LA. Here's my big chance to actually land a job in New York City and start doing the comedian thing on the side, 2 years ahead of plan. I'm excited and pumped, and yes, Broke as Sh!t. I've basically got enough money to catch a bus to and from. I've looked into places to stay in Manhattan, but even by the night they are expensive as hell.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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youngmack said:
I do..but i live in the hood (brooklyn to be exact). so its horrible around here
So i take it you live in bushwick or flatbush or some crazy place like that? i don't care. lol. seriously. i don't care
 

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Prove to youngmack that you're not "Son of Gacey".
 

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The world is an extreme difficult place, I realised long ago theres nobody to help you, and we are on our own.

1) I would advise get a part time job, anywhere shop etc, just to get started, save up then apply again.

OR

2) try to find a job in the place your going to before you go.

OR

3) get a short amount/ loan from family etc until you get your career up and running

I know some say its hard to find a job, but you have to keep pursuing,
I was in your situation when I was studying, and even after graduating took a bit of a while to get the job i wanted, I had to do even low paid jobs, and while I was working I was applying for the job I wanted until I got it , I would help you out mate if I knew you better and you was in where im living, but I know what its like when things can get tough.

So best of luck
 

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my name is luka magnotta.. i live in the bronx and have an empty sofabed in living room if interested
 

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Tiguere said:
my name is luka magnotta.. i live in the bronx and have an empty sofabed in living room if interested
haha
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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