"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Anybody live in Manhattan NYC?

btownbuck2012

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2008
Messages
1,436
Reaction score
1,520
Age
37
Location
Los Angeles
I would have posted this in the 'anything else' section but it's urgent, so if you're a MOD Chill out for a minute.

I've got an interview in Manhattan on the 21st and two more on the 22nd. I'm gonna be arriving in New York via a megabus from Washington, DC on the 21st and it'd be awesome if I could stay with anybody who has a place in Manhattan for the night of the 21st. I'll sleep on the floor, i don't care. YOU DON'T HAVE TO FEED ME. All i need is a roof over my head on the 21st in manhattan. I'll split early in the morning.

C'mon boys help a fellow sosuaver out.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

btownbuck2012

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2008
Messages
1,436
Reaction score
1,520
Age
37
Location
Los Angeles
TonyBaloney said:
Hey buddy,

Why the desperation? Cant afford a motel? I'll put in 10 dollars if you give a three paragraph long explanation, and I
Why the desperation? Cause I'm trying to become a comedian and I've worked my butt off in order to try to make it to NYC or LA. Here's my big chance to actually land a job in New York City and start doing the comedian thing on the side, 2 years ahead of plan. I'm excited and pumped, and yes, Broke as Sh!t. I've basically got enough money to catch a bus to and from. I've looked into places to stay in Manhattan, but even by the night they are expensive as hell.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

btownbuck2012

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2008
Messages
1,436
Reaction score
1,520
Age
37
Location
Los Angeles
youngmack said:
I do..but i live in the hood (brooklyn to be exact). so its horrible around here
So i take it you live in bushwick or flatbush or some crazy place like that? i don't care. lol. seriously. i don't care
 

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,657
Reaction score
6,614
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
Prove to youngmack that you're not "Son of Gacey".
 

khussa28

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 18, 2012
Messages
23
Reaction score
0
The world is an extreme difficult place, I realised long ago theres nobody to help you, and we are on our own.

1) I would advise get a part time job, anywhere shop etc, just to get started, save up then apply again.

OR

2) try to find a job in the place your going to before you go.

OR

3) get a short amount/ loan from family etc until you get your career up and running

I know some say its hard to find a job, but you have to keep pursuing,
I was in your situation when I was studying, and even after graduating took a bit of a while to get the job i wanted, I had to do even low paid jobs, and while I was working I was applying for the job I wanted until I got it , I would help you out mate if I knew you better and you was in where im living, but I know what its like when things can get tough.

So best of luck
 

Tiguere

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 15, 2009
Messages
1,036
Reaction score
85
my name is luka magnotta.. i live in the bronx and have an empty sofabed in living room if interested
 

dbx

Don Juan
Joined
May 29, 2012
Messages
96
Reaction score
1
Tiguere said:
my name is luka magnotta.. i live in the bronx and have an empty sofabed in living room if interested
haha
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Top