"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anybody live in Manhattan NYC?

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I would have posted this in the 'anything else' section but it's urgent, so if you're a MOD Chill out for a minute.

I've got an interview in Manhattan on the 21st and two more on the 22nd. I'm gonna be arriving in New York via a megabus from Washington, DC on the 21st and it'd be awesome if I could stay with anybody who has a place in Manhattan for the night of the 21st. I'll sleep on the floor, i don't care. YOU DON'T HAVE TO FEED ME. All i need is a roof over my head on the 21st in manhattan. I'll split early in the morning.

C'mon boys help a fellow sosuaver out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TonyBaloney said:
Hey buddy,

Why the desperation? Cant afford a motel? I'll put in 10 dollars if you give a three paragraph long explanation, and I
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Why the desperation? Cause I'm trying to become a comedian and I've worked my butt off in order to try to make it to NYC or LA. Here's my big chance to actually land a job in New York City and start doing the comedian thing on the side, 2 years ahead of plan. I'm excited and pumped, and yes, Broke as Sh!t. I've basically got enough money to catch a bus to and from. I've looked into places to stay in Manhattan, but even by the night they are expensive as hell.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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youngmack said:
I do..but i live in the hood (brooklyn to be exact). so its horrible around here
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So i take it you live in bushwick or flatbush or some crazy place like that? i don't care. lol. seriously. i don't care
 
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Prove to youngmack that you're not "Son of Gacey".
 
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The world is an extreme difficult place, I realised long ago theres nobody to help you, and we are on our own.

1) I would advise get a part time job, anywhere shop etc, just to get started, save up then apply again.

OR

2) try to find a job in the place your going to before you go.

OR

3) get a short amount/ loan from family etc until you get your career up and running

I know some say its hard to find a job, but you have to keep pursuing,
I was in your situation when I was studying, and even after graduating took a bit of a while to get the job i wanted, I had to do even low paid jobs, and while I was working I was applying for the job I wanted until I got it , I would help you out mate if I knew you better and you was in where im living, but I know what its like when things can get tough.

So best of luck
 
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my name is luka magnotta.. i live in the bronx and have an empty sofabed in living room if interested
 
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Tiguere said:
my name is luka magnotta.. i live in the bronx and have an empty sofabed in living room if interested
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haha
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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