"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anybody knows of any relaxing spots to go to ?

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What are some good affordable places to go and just get away from all the bs and drama, and just relax.

Like i know the beach at night is a good one.

I wish sometimes i could make a big buble where no noise, could get into and just relax in there and get my mind together.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jason86

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You just got to find a place nearby that nobody knows about.

Once i was up to no good at home, so i went out and was just up for exploring at like 1 in the morning.

I thought id go into the hotel nearby my house and there was some kind of fence by the side of the hotel which leads to a motorway (highway). I jumped over the fence and next thing i know im on some walkpath that was a couple of feet above the motorway. Theres some trees in front of the walkpath, so nobody can really see me.

So anyway i thought cool i found a cool spot here. went back home, grabbed a cig and went back there and just smoked away looking down on all those cars in the motorway, with a full moon shining on.

I go to that spot once in a while now, whenever i feel like relaxing and clearing my mind.

Just walk around looking for a spot in your city man. There has to be some isolated place about.
 

il_duce

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Go to a hookah bar. Damn relaxing. It will probably cost you a little money, but it will definitely relax your body and your mind.
 
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u live in miami....the beach and the local mental home are exquisite places
 

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In the wee hours of the morning you could go just about anywhere. In the afternoon, maybe a bookstore if you dont mind just a little chatter or a library.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Plain & Simple

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yeah the beach at nightime is like the perfect place
 

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go fishing, early in the morning, by yourself.
 
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