"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anybody know about this?

WesCottII

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Trusting women? Hahahaha, cute notion.

Would you trust a dog alone in a room with a steak? You'd trust it to be a dog. Women are the same, you must trust them, to be women.

That means they rationalise their cheating/drama/games on the fact that they are women, and "can do this stuff".

Trusting a woman to act like a man, is the ultimate folly.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WesCottII said:
Trusting women? Hahahaha, cute notion.

Would you trust a dog alone in a room with a steak? You'd trust it to be a dog. Women are the same, you must trust them, to be women.

That means they rationalise their cheating/drama/games on the fact that they are women, and "can do this stuff".

Trusting a woman to act like a man, is the ultimate folly.
Nice, more guys need to realize this and move past being upset by it, it's just nature.
 

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Mavrick said:
Trustworthyness is earned.
I say that trust has more to do with your capacity to handle the actions of another person rather than counting on them not to slight you in the first place.
 

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Mistic said:
Bro, what I have really learned is that you are alone in this world. You come in and go out alone. Because people are mostly living in fear right now, they act in ways that aren't really themselves. Learn to trust your intuition, and you will never have to put that trust in other people.

You will feel when someone is being straight with you or not. Right now this is the best way to trust people. Trust your intuition.

Great advice...very on point! These are very wise words!!
 

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ready123 said:
lol that sounds poetic but conceptually it makes no sense

you act like a challenge if you're needy to fake it until internalize a more balanced reality. you act like a challenge by doing push-pull to add intrigue when running attraction game

trust has nothing to do with either. trust is something you use in an ONS to kill last minute resistance and flaking, or something REAL you build over time in a relationship
Ok, if you say so. If your woman doesn't realize what she has in you, she'll cheat. When they lose interest, they move on. They swing like monkeys from tree to tree. By keeping up the interest, you'll be safe. The best thing is to watch for red flags and keep yourself out of troublesome relationships. Who needs 'em?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The only person you can trust is yourself. Trust yourself to do whats right for you, not other people.
 

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You can never trust a woman fully. You can only screen for a girl that seems more trustworthy than the others and do things that keep her interest high. If you made agreement with a woman to be exclusive, you also have to make it clear that there's repercutions for her breaking that agreement, including you walking away.
 
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