"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WesCottII

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Trusting women? Hahahaha, cute notion.

Would you trust a dog alone in a room with a steak? You'd trust it to be a dog. Women are the same, you must trust them, to be women.

That means they rationalise their cheating/drama/games on the fact that they are women, and "can do this stuff".

Trusting a woman to act like a man, is the ultimate folly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WesCottII said:
Trusting women? Hahahaha, cute notion.

Would you trust a dog alone in a room with a steak? You'd trust it to be a dog. Women are the same, you must trust them, to be women.

That means they rationalise their cheating/drama/games on the fact that they are women, and "can do this stuff".

Trusting a woman to act like a man, is the ultimate folly.
Nice, more guys need to realize this and move past being upset by it, it's just nature.
 

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Mavrick said:
Trustworthyness is earned.
I say that trust has more to do with your capacity to handle the actions of another person rather than counting on them not to slight you in the first place.
 

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Mistic said:
Bro, what I have really learned is that you are alone in this world. You come in and go out alone. Because people are mostly living in fear right now, they act in ways that aren't really themselves. Learn to trust your intuition, and you will never have to put that trust in other people.

You will feel when someone is being straight with you or not. Right now this is the best way to trust people. Trust your intuition.

Great advice...very on point! These are very wise words!!
 

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ready123 said:
lol that sounds poetic but conceptually it makes no sense

you act like a challenge if you're needy to fake it until internalize a more balanced reality. you act like a challenge by doing push-pull to add intrigue when running attraction game

trust has nothing to do with either. trust is something you use in an ONS to kill last minute resistance and flaking, or something REAL you build over time in a relationship
Ok, if you say so. If your woman doesn't realize what she has in you, she'll cheat. When they lose interest, they move on. They swing like monkeys from tree to tree. By keeping up the interest, you'll be safe. The best thing is to watch for red flags and keep yourself out of troublesome relationships. Who needs 'em?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The only person you can trust is yourself. Trust yourself to do whats right for you, not other people.
 

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You can never trust a woman fully. You can only screen for a girl that seems more trustworthy than the others and do things that keep her interest high. If you made agreement with a woman to be exclusive, you also have to make it clear that there's repercutions for her breaking that agreement, including you walking away.
 
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