"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anybody here slim and consistently pull girls?

synergy1

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5'10" 180 lbs works for me. I get more attention than when I was 130 lbs before working out.

Go to Europe, guys there aren't as big as here and they pull hotter girls ..but there are more to chose from. Overall, it doesn't matter if you are jacked or not even though it seems to help. Moral of the story, DO WORK!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zekko

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no one here consistently pull's girls dude....why would you be on this site if you did
Well, I don't consistently pull girls because I'm in a LTR.
But I do find this subject fascinating, I appreciate the opportunity to improve myself, and fact is I just like message boards.
 

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Demystify said:
I don't know how many girls have told me that I'm too tall (I'm 6'3").
are you serious? thats interesting..I'm the same height and I've heard a lot of "oh you're SO tall" rather than "oh you're TOO tall" when doing things like dancing or getting in and out of their cars and that kind of thing. not once heard it as an indication of disinterest.

i know that's not the point of this thread but my bodyfat has always been a couple % points above where I want, so I can't comment on any other part of this :p
 
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