"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anybody here slim and consistently pull girls?

synergy1

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5'10" 180 lbs works for me. I get more attention than when I was 130 lbs before working out.

Go to Europe, guys there aren't as big as here and they pull hotter girls ..but there are more to chose from. Overall, it doesn't matter if you are jacked or not even though it seems to help. Moral of the story, DO WORK!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zekko

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no one here consistently pull's girls dude....why would you be on this site if you did
Well, I don't consistently pull girls because I'm in a LTR.
But I do find this subject fascinating, I appreciate the opportunity to improve myself, and fact is I just like message boards.
 

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Demystify said:
I don't know how many girls have told me that I'm too tall (I'm 6'3").
are you serious? thats interesting..I'm the same height and I've heard a lot of "oh you're SO tall" rather than "oh you're TOO tall" when doing things like dancing or getting in and out of their cars and that kind of thing. not once heard it as an indication of disinterest.

i know that's not the point of this thread but my bodyfat has always been a couple % points above where I want, so I can't comment on any other part of this :p
 
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