Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Anybody else actually sort of turned off by blondes?

Belmar2009

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I don't know why, but I never understood the whole, "blondes are the ideal woman or blondes are so much hotter.

I think brunettes are waaaayyyy more attractive. Darker hair justs oozes class, strength and character.

Not to mention, women that have tanner skin, darker eyes with blonde hair just look ridiculous.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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speakeasy

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Blondes are no more or no less attractive than any kind of woman. Yet if you say to an average man, "she's a blonde", he automatically envisions some hot, young, thin babe with big breasts. The whole Swedish bikini team stereotype which doesn't even exist(most Scandinavians have dark hair). It's pretty stupid. Hot women come in all varieties.
 

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I (perhaps erroneously) think of blondes as being more sexual, and less likely to be taken seriously than brunettes.
 

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Belmar2009 said:
I don't know why, but I never understood the whole, "blondes are the ideal woman or blondes are so much hotter.

I think brunettes are waaaayyyy more attractive. Darker hair justs oozes class, strength and character.

Not to mention, women that have tanner skin, darker eyes with blonde hair just look ridiculous.
I would agree. I guess it is just personal preference.:D
 

seagull

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Never been that attracted to blondes or understood the hype about them. They've always looked plain to me, having light coloured hair with pale skin. Not a good combination. Rather a brunette, latina or Asian girl any day.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I personally like dark haired girls better. But then again most blondes are fake blondes which is retardation imo.
 

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I'm starting to be turned off by blondes. The reason is there's tons of old ladies who are dying their hair blonde. You see a woman from behind and become curious as to how good she looks in the front. You see the front, and she's a fvcking raisin.

Blonde hair is quickly becoming an 'old lady' thing.
 

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I've always had a bit of a thing for natural readheads and brunettes personally. Although nine years on and off hell with a particularly feisty readhead did kind of dull that ardour. There is something to the hairtrigger temper/emotions stereotype there IMO.

Was with a natural blonde once for a while, which was ok, although she was a bit of a bimbo in many ways and the quality of the sex just didn't make-up for the lack of anything else going-on between her ears and recently I was getting closer to a very long haired dyed-blonde lady who again, didn't have much by way of interests apart from her looks and her dogs. No-go really.

Current preferred lady is an athletic, tanned brunnette, who is also clever, funny, quick-witted and does it very nicely for me, in all sorts of ways. :)
 

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Lots of blondes are hot. It's just a hair color, some girls look better with it, and some without.
 

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I have a thing for natural blondes, not the fake out of a bottle blonde.

Nothing quite like a blonde puss*!

You can spot fake blondes a mile away, the eyebrows always give it away.
Also they get roots, black hair comes through eventually and they have to keep dying it.

Natural blondes have no such problems, also natural blondes seem to have better hair, i.e not washed out with chemicals, since natural blondes hardly ever at all dye their hair, but a good % of none blondes have in the past probably experimented at least once.

Yes i'm a sucker for blondes.

I once dated a girl with blonde hair down to her bum, it was her best feature, but it took her around an hour per day to sort out.

Blondes normally have fair skin so they dont normally suntan, my current GF is blonde, natural and she goes red out in the sun rather then brown - also sun seems to bring out the golden glow of blonde hair more, which looks healthier.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Most blonde women are thick as two short planks, that's an automatic turn off. :down:
 

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Must be preference. If there's one trait in a woman I consistently prefer, it's brunettes over blondes.
 
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