"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anybody else actually sort of turned off by blondes?

Belmar2009

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I don't know why, but I never understood the whole, "blondes are the ideal woman or blondes are so much hotter.

I think brunettes are waaaayyyy more attractive. Darker hair justs oozes class, strength and character.

Not to mention, women that have tanner skin, darker eyes with blonde hair just look ridiculous.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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speakeasy

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Blondes are no more or no less attractive than any kind of woman. Yet if you say to an average man, "she's a blonde", he automatically envisions some hot, young, thin babe with big breasts. The whole Swedish bikini team stereotype which doesn't even exist(most Scandinavians have dark hair). It's pretty stupid. Hot women come in all varieties.
 

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I (perhaps erroneously) think of blondes as being more sexual, and less likely to be taken seriously than brunettes.
 

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Belmar2009 said:
I don't know why, but I never understood the whole, "blondes are the ideal woman or blondes are so much hotter.

I think brunettes are waaaayyyy more attractive. Darker hair justs oozes class, strength and character.

Not to mention, women that have tanner skin, darker eyes with blonde hair just look ridiculous.
I would agree. I guess it is just personal preference.:D
 

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Never been that attracted to blondes or understood the hype about them. They've always looked plain to me, having light coloured hair with pale skin. Not a good combination. Rather a brunette, latina or Asian girl any day.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I personally like dark haired girls better. But then again most blondes are fake blondes which is retardation imo.
 

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I'm starting to be turned off by blondes. The reason is there's tons of old ladies who are dying their hair blonde. You see a woman from behind and become curious as to how good she looks in the front. You see the front, and she's a fvcking raisin.

Blonde hair is quickly becoming an 'old lady' thing.
 

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I've always had a bit of a thing for natural readheads and brunettes personally. Although nine years on and off hell with a particularly feisty readhead did kind of dull that ardour. There is something to the hairtrigger temper/emotions stereotype there IMO.

Was with a natural blonde once for a while, which was ok, although she was a bit of a bimbo in many ways and the quality of the sex just didn't make-up for the lack of anything else going-on between her ears and recently I was getting closer to a very long haired dyed-blonde lady who again, didn't have much by way of interests apart from her looks and her dogs. No-go really.

Current preferred lady is an athletic, tanned brunnette, who is also clever, funny, quick-witted and does it very nicely for me, in all sorts of ways. :)
 

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Lots of blondes are hot. It's just a hair color, some girls look better with it, and some without.
 

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I have a thing for natural blondes, not the fake out of a bottle blonde.

Nothing quite like a blonde puss*!

You can spot fake blondes a mile away, the eyebrows always give it away.
Also they get roots, black hair comes through eventually and they have to keep dying it.

Natural blondes have no such problems, also natural blondes seem to have better hair, i.e not washed out with chemicals, since natural blondes hardly ever at all dye their hair, but a good % of none blondes have in the past probably experimented at least once.

Yes i'm a sucker for blondes.

I once dated a girl with blonde hair down to her bum, it was her best feature, but it took her around an hour per day to sort out.

Blondes normally have fair skin so they dont normally suntan, my current GF is blonde, natural and she goes red out in the sun rather then brown - also sun seems to bring out the golden glow of blonde hair more, which looks healthier.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Most blonde women are thick as two short planks, that's an automatic turn off. :down:
 

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Must be preference. If there's one trait in a woman I consistently prefer, it's brunettes over blondes.
 
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