"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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any1 have scoliosis?

El_Indio

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I have scoliosis (might be spelled wrong...) and was wondering if there is a safe way of correcting it? I have been to 2 chiropractors and have seen my xrays and my spine seems pretty bad. I dont have any pain, but would like to straighten it, would i suffer great damage in the future if it is not corrected soon ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have scoliosis too. My spine looks pretty curved. When I was 16 it was bad. I started strenghting my muscles especially abs and lower back. My spine is still curved, but it's ok now. My doctor was quite proud of me. I don't know if there is a way to make your spine straight. Ask your doctor about what you should do
 

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Intesting story about the disorder - my dad has it, and if he didn't I wouldn't be here today.

Back in the day, him and some friends were jumping off a train bridge into the river, and he managed to somehow hit a sandbar and break his neck...The curvature of his spine due to scoliosis acted almost as a "spring" in absorbing some of the damage, whereas a normal "straight" spine would of probably left the person paralyzed.

Eek :eek:
 

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One of my friends had back surgery because the scoliosis was that bad.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You can also get orthodics to fix it if it is just minor. I did that about 8 years ago.
 
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