"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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any1 have scoliosis?

El_Indio

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I have scoliosis (might be spelled wrong...) and was wondering if there is a safe way of correcting it? I have been to 2 chiropractors and have seen my xrays and my spine seems pretty bad. I dont have any pain, but would like to straighten it, would i suffer great damage in the future if it is not corrected soon ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have scoliosis too. My spine looks pretty curved. When I was 16 it was bad. I started strenghting my muscles especially abs and lower back. My spine is still curved, but it's ok now. My doctor was quite proud of me. I don't know if there is a way to make your spine straight. Ask your doctor about what you should do
 

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Intesting story about the disorder - my dad has it, and if he didn't I wouldn't be here today.

Back in the day, him and some friends were jumping off a train bridge into the river, and he managed to somehow hit a sandbar and break his neck...The curvature of his spine due to scoliosis acted almost as a "spring" in absorbing some of the damage, whereas a normal "straight" spine would of probably left the person paralyzed.

Eek :eek:
 

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One of my friends had back surgery because the scoliosis was that bad.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You can also get orthodics to fix it if it is just minor. I did that about 8 years ago.
 
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