"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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any1 have scoliosis?

El_Indio

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I have scoliosis (might be spelled wrong...) and was wondering if there is a safe way of correcting it? I have been to 2 chiropractors and have seen my xrays and my spine seems pretty bad. I dont have any pain, but would like to straighten it, would i suffer great damage in the future if it is not corrected soon ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have scoliosis too. My spine looks pretty curved. When I was 16 it was bad. I started strenghting my muscles especially abs and lower back. My spine is still curved, but it's ok now. My doctor was quite proud of me. I don't know if there is a way to make your spine straight. Ask your doctor about what you should do
 

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Intesting story about the disorder - my dad has it, and if he didn't I wouldn't be here today.

Back in the day, him and some friends were jumping off a train bridge into the river, and he managed to somehow hit a sandbar and break his neck...The curvature of his spine due to scoliosis acted almost as a "spring" in absorbing some of the damage, whereas a normal "straight" spine would of probably left the person paralyzed.

Eek :eek:
 

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One of my friends had back surgery because the scoliosis was that bad.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You can also get orthodics to fix it if it is just minor. I did that about 8 years ago.
 
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