"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any way to salvage or have I killed it

Aesthetix29

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Hey! Been a good while since I was last here .. but good to be back.

To cut a long story short I was on holiday last week and met a bird and hit it off ... kissed and cuddled in the sun but no sex, exchange numbers etc .. okay fast forward a few days once we're both back home and I message her .. I get a reply pretty much the norm wish we could of had longer together blah blah blah ... I reply in an beta way .. when I look back now .. and that was the last I heard off her .. I screwed up bad here, and she literally are only 20 mins drive away from each other ... the text was pretty stupid don't even know why I sent such a bad text. Is there anyway to fix this or just move on ?

I will add that our messages were dont through FB ... and we're still friends on FB AND INSTAGRAM.

Also I started chatting to another girl yesterday and killed that off ... my banters gone awful .. what's going on .. seriously
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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