"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Any way to salvage or have I killed it

Aesthetix29

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Hey! Been a good while since I was last here .. but good to be back.

To cut a long story short I was on holiday last week and met a bird and hit it off ... kissed and cuddled in the sun but no sex, exchange numbers etc .. okay fast forward a few days once we're both back home and I message her .. I get a reply pretty much the norm wish we could of had longer together blah blah blah ... I reply in an beta way .. when I look back now .. and that was the last I heard off her .. I screwed up bad here, and she literally are only 20 mins drive away from each other ... the text was pretty stupid don't even know why I sent such a bad text. Is there anyway to fix this or just move on ?

I will add that our messages were dont through FB ... and we're still friends on FB AND INSTAGRAM.

Also I started chatting to another girl yesterday and killed that off ... my banters gone awful .. what's going on .. seriously
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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