"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Any tips on dealing with relentless teases

MurphyL

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I'm no Don Juan per se and I certainly don't think all women are this way or even intentionally do it all the time. But when it blatantly obvious that a girl's only intention is to lead you on for her own self gratification and incessant need for attention how should you react? My strategy is to just go about my business. My philosophy, basically... I can play games at home on my PlayStation.

Thoughts?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Arcturus

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I'll invite them out to a situation likely to lead to sex, refuse to really chit-chat by saying "I have to run" if they decline. "Hey come over to my place on Friday, I'm making this Italian meal I want to try out", or drinks at a bar at night. Basically if they comply with all of it, I'll put up with their bs a little till I get sex and then I usually ditch them or keep them as a f-buddy only. Usually this sort of demand for compliance without any flexibility, accepting counter offers, offering other bs communication, is a way of sort of "soft nexting" a girl, as it chases many off. But some are needy enough to actually show up, at which point the only approval I offer them, is in the bedroom with their clothes off.
 
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