"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Any tips on dealing with relentless teases

MurphyL

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I'm no Don Juan per se and I certainly don't think all women are this way or even intentionally do it all the time. But when it blatantly obvious that a girl's only intention is to lead you on for her own self gratification and incessant need for attention how should you react? My strategy is to just go about my business. My philosophy, basically... I can play games at home on my PlayStation.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Arcturus

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I'll invite them out to a situation likely to lead to sex, refuse to really chit-chat by saying "I have to run" if they decline. "Hey come over to my place on Friday, I'm making this Italian meal I want to try out", or drinks at a bar at night. Basically if they comply with all of it, I'll put up with their bs a little till I get sex and then I usually ditch them or keep them as a f-buddy only. Usually this sort of demand for compliance without any flexibility, accepting counter offers, offering other bs communication, is a way of sort of "soft nexting" a girl, as it chases many off. But some are needy enough to actually show up, at which point the only approval I offer them, is in the bedroom with their clothes off.
 
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