"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Any tips on dealing with a new girl/woman during the holidays?

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I closed a woman last week for her numbers. We met last month but life got in the way and we didn't connect until late this week.

I plan to meet her again quickly next week for lunch to lay the foundation but I don't know if I'm ready to do Thanksgiving/Christman/New Years with her, her family or friends at this point.

Even worse I don't want to feel compelled to buy gifts...

Any advice here? I work a lot but I need to have controlled/planned engagements with her until 2020.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You number closed, haven’t met second time with her yet, and you’re worried about the Holidays with her family and friends already.
Don’t put her cart in front of your horse just yet…
 
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