"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any tips on dealing with a new girl/woman during the holidays?

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I closed a woman last week for her numbers. We met last month but life got in the way and we didn't connect until late this week.

I plan to meet her again quickly next week for lunch to lay the foundation but I don't know if I'm ready to do Thanksgiving/Christman/New Years with her, her family or friends at this point.

Even worse I don't want to feel compelled to buy gifts...

Any advice here? I work a lot but I need to have controlled/planned engagements with her until 2020.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Billtx49

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You number closed, haven’t met second time with her yet, and you’re worried about the Holidays with her family and friends already.
Don’t put her cart in front of your horse just yet…
 
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