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Any tips on dealing with a new girl/woman during the holidays?

Residentx

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I closed a woman last week for her numbers. We met last month but life got in the way and we didn't connect until late this week.

I plan to meet her again quickly next week for lunch to lay the foundation but I don't know if I'm ready to do Thanksgiving/Christman/New Years with her, her family or friends at this point.

Even worse I don't want to feel compelled to buy gifts...

Any advice here? I work a lot but I need to have controlled/planned engagements with her until 2020.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Billtx49

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You number closed, haven’t met second time with her yet, and you’re worried about the Holidays with her family and friends already.
Don’t put her cart in front of your horse just yet…
 
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