Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Any tips for shy gals?

Lexington

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I've had my eye on this cute girl for a while. I talk to her from time to time and she seems nice enough. However, it seemed I could never get any conversation going with her. At first, I thought it was due to disinterest until later I realized that she just seems very introverted.

She comes out to parties, but she just stays in a corner nursing a beer talking with one or two female friends. I've seen several dudes walk up to her, talk to her for a while and then just walk away. She's not mean or *****y. In fact she seems like a very nice girl. She's just awfully shy.

Having been a very shy person in the past, I can relate. I was once the same way. People would come up to me and be friendly, but I was so shy that I would often come off as a little cold and aloof. I didn't want to have that effect and in fact I was very outgoing and social with my small circle of friends.

I'd bet a lot of money she's probably got a lot of things to say and that she can be a fun person, but she just needs to feel a little bit more comfortable with people.

Anyone have any tips for the shy ladies?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Duffdog

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Heres one;

Have you tried asking her why she is so shy? Maybe after you find out you will or won't like her. She might just be a typical girl who says she "puts up walls" or other nonsense.
 
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