"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Any tips for shy gals?

Lexington

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I've had my eye on this cute girl for a while. I talk to her from time to time and she seems nice enough. However, it seemed I could never get any conversation going with her. At first, I thought it was due to disinterest until later I realized that she just seems very introverted.

She comes out to parties, but she just stays in a corner nursing a beer talking with one or two female friends. I've seen several dudes walk up to her, talk to her for a while and then just walk away. She's not mean or *****y. In fact she seems like a very nice girl. She's just awfully shy.

Having been a very shy person in the past, I can relate. I was once the same way. People would come up to me and be friendly, but I was so shy that I would often come off as a little cold and aloof. I didn't want to have that effect and in fact I was very outgoing and social with my small circle of friends.

I'd bet a lot of money she's probably got a lot of things to say and that she can be a fun person, but she just needs to feel a little bit more comfortable with people.

Anyone have any tips for the shy ladies?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Duffdog

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Heres one;

Have you tried asking her why she is so shy? Maybe after you find out you will or won't like her. She might just be a typical girl who says she "puts up walls" or other nonsense.
 
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