"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Any tips for shy gals?

Lexington

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I've had my eye on this cute girl for a while. I talk to her from time to time and she seems nice enough. However, it seemed I could never get any conversation going with her. At first, I thought it was due to disinterest until later I realized that she just seems very introverted.

She comes out to parties, but she just stays in a corner nursing a beer talking with one or two female friends. I've seen several dudes walk up to her, talk to her for a while and then just walk away. She's not mean or *****y. In fact she seems like a very nice girl. She's just awfully shy.

Having been a very shy person in the past, I can relate. I was once the same way. People would come up to me and be friendly, but I was so shy that I would often come off as a little cold and aloof. I didn't want to have that effect and in fact I was very outgoing and social with my small circle of friends.

I'd bet a lot of money she's probably got a lot of things to say and that she can be a fun person, but she just needs to feel a little bit more comfortable with people.

Anyone have any tips for the shy ladies?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Duffdog

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Heres one;

Have you tried asking her why she is so shy? Maybe after you find out you will or won't like her. She might just be a typical girl who says she "puts up walls" or other nonsense.
 
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