neobrood
Senior Don Juan
... cuz I always fail... 
Any good openers?
Pls reply... thanks.
Any good openers?
Pls reply... thanks.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Any tips for cold approach in bus stop?
- Thread starter neobrood
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MindOverMatter
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 21, 2004
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Bus stops are my favorite places to approach. The girl is stationary (not moving), she's usually bored waiting for the bus, and unless she's a total ice queen, you can have an awesome conversation in no time.
I did this approach last week actually.
"did the 95 pass by?"
"no/yes"
"ah thanks, my name is <> by the way"
"im <>"
"nice to meet you, (sometimes I'll say "that's a pretty cute name" if it's a unique one, I didn't do it last week tho), where are you coming from?"
"work/hair salon/feminist rally/etc"
ask more about that, get her talking about her life, etc, make her comfortable, make her laugh at least once, if she asks you anything, be mildly c&f, then once your or her bus comes, tell her you wanna get to know her better over coffee, and ask for her to punch her number into your phone.
I did this approach last week actually.
"did the 95 pass by?"
"no/yes"
"ah thanks, my name is <> by the way"
"im <>"
"nice to meet you, (sometimes I'll say "that's a pretty cute name" if it's a unique one, I didn't do it last week tho), where are you coming from?"
"work/hair salon/feminist rally/etc"
ask more about that, get her talking about her life, etc, make her comfortable, make her laugh at least once, if she asks you anything, be mildly c&f, then once your or her bus comes, tell her you wanna get to know her better over coffee, and ask for her to punch her number into your phone.
Hollowpoint
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 28, 2004
- Messages
- 593
- Reaction score
- 0
'How long have you been waiting?'
I don't know, I give up.
I actually do nice weather openers and then start talking about what cool things I'm planning to do.
I don't know, I give up.
I actually do nice weather openers and then start talking about what cool things I'm planning to do.