"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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any thoughts?

Alen-Delon

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i am currently seeing this one girl we are not dating just hanging out and stuff. we had not had sex yet but its getting there. the other night we were at her house drinking with her friends :woo: then my friend came. later that night i had to go to work i had to go in for third shift so i did. as it turns out they ended going to the club with my friend. so today my friend tells me that she was making out with him and was ready to fukk and all. but i know my friend, hes a pathological liar. anyway i dont have feelings for this girl but what ever we have going on is pretty cool at this point and i want to have sex with her. but this incident if it ever took place kinda holds me back i dont know why. what you guys think should i confront her about this or just act like i dont know shyt or should i just forget about her.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This chick is a liar and a $lut! if u want to get with her (and risk getting an std) then pretend not to know anything, f*ck her, then tell her to f*ckoff....

And as for your "friend", if he KNOWS that u are seeing this chick, and he still did that with her, u should tell him to f*ckoff too. If he didnt know, then he isnt at fault.


Laterz...
 

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well i still cant make up my mind. she called me once today but i didnt want to return a phone call. i think i should make her beg for it. lol. maybe let her take the wheel and see what happens.
 

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Why waste more time on this ho?

Originally posted by Alen-Delon
well i still cant make up my mind. she called me once today but i didnt want to return a phone call. i think i should make her beg for it. lol. maybe let her take the wheel and see what happens.
Well you need to take time out, thik to yourself, and KNOW exactly what you want...... If you want to get with her, then do it and stop wasting time with her, and then move on to someone thats more worth your time... if you DONT want her, then just tell her to f*ckoff, she is a cheap $lut, and cheap $luts arent worth our time, so do the deed, and next her... thats what I would do;)


Laterz..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alen-Delon

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its not that i am worrying about her its just i dont like wasting my time on stupid hoez. anyway lil update. today i went over to her house she wasnt home but her 2 roommates were. so we went to get some liqiour and stop by the where that girl works aka girl i am seeing . to ask what time she gets of work blah blah. then we went to my house and started drinking near the pool, it was around 4:00 p.m sunny day. so i got a pretty tipsy and started macking on her friend whos 8.5HB. we were flirting & kino heavily at the pool. then half hour later my other friend gets there so we go into the house. i put some music on and i ask her to dance with me, as it turns out she is quit good at salsa so am i. so we are dancing very close to each other i am pulling on some moves lol trying to impress but shes no fool she had few herself. our lips are inch away from each other, i go in for a kiss, she turns her head and i start kissing her neck she enjoys it. then 2 mins later we are in same situation and i go in for another kill she turns me down again ! ok so we take a break drink some more. i ask her again to dance with me she agrees and we start dancing again :woo: again i go in for a kill and she doesnt refuse it this time so we had lil tongue action untill her c@ckblocking friend came in and she kinda saw us. which i dont really give a flying FKK about. we had to stop and go outside on the patio to keep drinking. so we sat around 2 more hours talking this and that. then we get a call from her friend aka girl i am seeing lol. so they have to go pick her up from work i said cool i am just gonna go to sleep i have to work tonight so they leave.

now what the hell i am supposed to do. i think i ****ed up with both of them big time. i am really confused as to what to do next.

any advice ?
 

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anybody have any thougts on what to do next ?
 

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I'm confused just reading it to be honest....:moon: :wave: :trouble: :cuss:
 
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