"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Any Style Tips For A Big Man ?

ashman1

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Hey Guys , ayn style tips for a big man like me ?
like things to wear or any kind of links to sites that will help me dress better
to attract women .

beacuse im kindofa big guy , not fat but at least 6'2" 265 lbs, ive got an athletic build from my fighting days but the midsection has gotten a little out of hand and im a little self concisous about it , i've gone back into training
but still wann look good fr my size . any suggestions ? :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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justiceseeker

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I'm 6'5 and weight about 235lbs. I'm pretty lean though. It's tough to find shirt with arms long enough. Rochester Big and Tall is a great place for bigger guys to find fashionable clothes.
 

AKA FLEX

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Hit the gym, drop a few inches off your waist, and wear form-fitting polo shirts and jeans. Hit the clubs and you'll get attention.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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armadon

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I still shop at the regular stores and I'm 6'4" 325. I usually go with just a nice polo shirt and either jeans or khakis depedning on where I am going. I live in AZ though so not alot of options due to heat.
 
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