"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Any Style Tips For A Big Man ?

ashman1

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Hey Guys , ayn style tips for a big man like me ?
like things to wear or any kind of links to sites that will help me dress better
to attract women .

beacuse im kindofa big guy , not fat but at least 6'2" 265 lbs, ive got an athletic build from my fighting days but the midsection has gotten a little out of hand and im a little self concisous about it , i've gone back into training
but still wann look good fr my size . any suggestions ? :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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justiceseeker

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I'm 6'5 and weight about 235lbs. I'm pretty lean though. It's tough to find shirt with arms long enough. Rochester Big and Tall is a great place for bigger guys to find fashionable clothes.
 

AKA FLEX

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Hit the gym, drop a few inches off your waist, and wear form-fitting polo shirts and jeans. Hit the clubs and you'll get attention.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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armadon

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I still shop at the regular stores and I'm 6'4" 325. I usually go with just a nice polo shirt and either jeans or khakis depedning on where I am going. I live in AZ though so not alot of options due to heat.
 
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