"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Any Style Tips For A Big Man ?

ashman1

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Hey Guys , ayn style tips for a big man like me ?
like things to wear or any kind of links to sites that will help me dress better
to attract women .

beacuse im kindofa big guy , not fat but at least 6'2" 265 lbs, ive got an athletic build from my fighting days but the midsection has gotten a little out of hand and im a little self concisous about it , i've gone back into training
but still wann look good fr my size . any suggestions ? :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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justiceseeker

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I'm 6'5 and weight about 235lbs. I'm pretty lean though. It's tough to find shirt with arms long enough. Rochester Big and Tall is a great place for bigger guys to find fashionable clothes.
 

AKA FLEX

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Hit the gym, drop a few inches off your waist, and wear form-fitting polo shirts and jeans. Hit the clubs and you'll get attention.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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armadon

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I still shop at the regular stores and I'm 6'4" 325. I usually go with just a nice polo shirt and either jeans or khakis depedning on where I am going. I live in AZ though so not alot of options due to heat.
 
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