"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Any Rappers in here?

Ganondorf

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Hi, big hip hop fan here

I thought i would take a min and improve my skillz on the mike for a sec

The problem is that i suck. I don't have flow, and my biggest problem is that i freeze up and often can't think of a word to rhyme with in time to keep up with the beat

so i was wondering if any of you fellas can rap on here

any tips on how to get better? exercises or what not?

thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I'm no rapper but, I freestyle in a group of like 6 guys. The only way to get better is to keep doing it.
 

ready123

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I had a rap group that performed at clubs when I was 18 and I still freestyle for fun, good enough to get blowups

making words rhyme on the fly is pretty much a mental habit that gets embedded in your subconscious by practicing and not caring what other people think. you'll know you're getting somewhere when you're not trying anymore and you surprise yourself. I can rhyme 3 syllable words and phrases outta my ass with very little thought

some tips
- if you have no flow, learn to "feel" the basic 8 count: align your syllables around the hi-hat. for every 8 hi-hats, put the rhymed word on the 7th
- if you have no flow, you can also rap along to your favorite rappers while being aware of the beat. you'll slowly be able to "feel" the rhythm they use
- take a word and just brainstorm as many words you can come up with that rhyme with it, as quickly as you can. this is how your minds will work in the moment when you're freestyling. your mind is basically making a split second decision when it chooses that second rhyme word
- don't be afraid to fvck up in front of a group because it's inevitable. nobody really gives a sht and if you get herbed on when you're not even battling, fvck them, seriously
- minimize using "crutch lines". IE people freestyle and use their written sht to fill in space, or repeat stuff like "when I'm on the mic". stuff like that just slows down your growth
- if you have a buddy that flows - start busting and "pass the mic" every couplet. IE you rhyme two lines, then he rhymes two lines, etc. see how long you can go
- have fun with this sht. in a way, getting good at this is like macking. if you're all self-conscious, you never get out of your shell and never get anywhere
 
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