"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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any problems with this plan?

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ok i figured i would do the whole movies and mall thing for my first date with this girl. shes not exetremely comfortable with dating because of her parents so im thinking hit up a buddy make it a double date. i think if this goes well ill move onto so more creative things. maybe for a second date go ice skating or somthing with a bit more kino options. so watcha think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you bring someone else into the equation that she doesn't know, it will just make her more uncomfortable. Besides I thought it was a date, not an outing with friends. Don't take your friends with you on first dates.
 
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not a bad idea just as long as she knows its a date with you. And make shure you kino every chance you get that's key.

edit: and make shure your bringing a couple and not some stupid ass friends that will steal your girl.
 
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eminence said:
If you bring someone else into the equation that she doesn't know, it will just make her more uncomfortable. Besides I thought it was a date, not an outing with friends. Don't take your friends with you on first dates.
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ya its some1 shes noes and it will be a couple
 
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