"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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any problems with this plan?

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ok i figured i would do the whole movies and mall thing for my first date with this girl. shes not exetremely comfortable with dating because of her parents so im thinking hit up a buddy make it a double date. i think if this goes well ill move onto so more creative things. maybe for a second date go ice skating or somthing with a bit more kino options. so watcha think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you bring someone else into the equation that she doesn't know, it will just make her more uncomfortable. Besides I thought it was a date, not an outing with friends. Don't take your friends with you on first dates.
 
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not a bad idea just as long as she knows its a date with you. And make shure you kino every chance you get that's key.

edit: and make shure your bringing a couple and not some stupid ass friends that will steal your girl.
 
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eminence said:
If you bring someone else into the equation that she doesn't know, it will just make her more uncomfortable. Besides I thought it was a date, not an outing with friends. Don't take your friends with you on first dates.
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ya its some1 shes noes and it will be a couple
 
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