"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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any problems with this plan?

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ok i figured i would do the whole movies and mall thing for my first date with this girl. shes not exetremely comfortable with dating because of her parents so im thinking hit up a buddy make it a double date. i think if this goes well ill move onto so more creative things. maybe for a second date go ice skating or somthing with a bit more kino options. so watcha think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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eminence

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If you bring someone else into the equation that she doesn't know, it will just make her more uncomfortable. Besides I thought it was a date, not an outing with friends. Don't take your friends with you on first dates.
 

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not a bad idea just as long as she knows its a date with you. And make shure you kino every chance you get that's key.

edit: and make shure your bringing a couple and not some stupid ass friends that will steal your girl.
 
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eminence said:
If you bring someone else into the equation that she doesn't know, it will just make her more uncomfortable. Besides I thought it was a date, not an outing with friends. Don't take your friends with you on first dates.
ya its some1 shes noes and it will be a couple
 
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