"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wodan

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what kind of place can you do that? and is it done in russia? :S
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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this is my routine and it works very well. Approach her and just ask the basics her name, skool/work etc. all the while gettin close to her (rubbin shoulders, look at her eyes) wtver she says u say u do too. Like if she goes to some skool, say u go there or u have a frend there or som thing. As soon as convo PEAKS (shes interested) LEAVE, tell her u gotta take care of somting and ull be back for her. Come back in abt 20 min and since u built a rapport she'll be REAL happy to see u and say some crap like u gotta go but take her number down and your good 2 go.

this technique is harder if u cant find the girl after 20 min, thats the only drawback i have. also before u leave the first time tell her somtin like "i gotta find my frend, but wen i come back u owe me a drink/dance" she wont say no trust me.
 
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