"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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any openers or routines>?

Wodan

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what kind of place can you do that? and is it done in russia? :S
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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this is my routine and it works very well. Approach her and just ask the basics her name, skool/work etc. all the while gettin close to her (rubbin shoulders, look at her eyes) wtver she says u say u do too. Like if she goes to some skool, say u go there or u have a frend there or som thing. As soon as convo PEAKS (shes interested) LEAVE, tell her u gotta take care of somting and ull be back for her. Come back in abt 20 min and since u built a rapport she'll be REAL happy to see u and say some crap like u gotta go but take her number down and your good 2 go.

this technique is harder if u cant find the girl after 20 min, thats the only drawback i have. also before u leave the first time tell her somtin like "i gotta find my frend, but wen i come back u owe me a drink/dance" she wont say no trust me.
 
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