"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Any one see the latest John wick?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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There are so many good streaming options that I am good waiting until this comes out as well.
My hold out movie (in terms of visiting the real cinema) is still Chris Nolan's Oppenheimer that is due to come out in cinema by the summer. That is because its release date coincides with the atomic test anniversary and would be ruined if I wait for streaming on it (ie unless I watch it on streaming a year later, lol!).
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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There was one major spoiler that thankfully I did not know about. There were a tonne of youtube vids I just saved on a playlist to play after I watched this movie. I was very careful to keep a blackout until it hit a low rent price point on streaming, so I could watch it without knowing that.
I now understand his motivations in keeping his dead wife alive in his mind and how she had inspired his movements and that vision. Sometimes we do things to keep things alive in our minds. I remember going up 17 or so flights of stairs, or re-visiting an island 6 times all because I was clinging to memories that meant something to me. I get John Wick. He earned his moment and got that connection he desperately wanted.
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