"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Any one any good on facebook?

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This girl added me on facebook and sent me this message.

"hiya how do i know u coz i know ur face and not sure where from? :)"

She knows me from when I was about 19 at a club. I just grabbed her when I was dancing made out with her a few times. And think i fingered her on the dance floor then left her and went off to get wasted with my mates.

This was years and years ago but I have a very good memory. She not overly attractive but doable. Im pretty hopeless at picking women up on the internet but I might give this one a shot.

Any advise on a first message.

I was gonna put

"Yes I can remember you from "the club". I think you kissed me on the dancefloor when we met. Hows things?"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hahaha . Im so tempted to put that purely for the reaction!
 
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Evolve said:
This girl added me on facebook and sent me this message.

"hiya how do i know u coz i know ur face and not sure where from? :)"

She knows me from when I was about 19 at a club. I just grabbed her when I was dancing made out with her a few times. And think i fingered her on the dance floor then left her and went off to get wasted with my mates.

This was years and years ago but I have a very good memory. She not overly attractive but doable. Im pretty hopeless at picking women up on the internet but I might give this one a shot.

Any advise on a first message.

I was gonna put

"Yes I can remember you from "the club". I think you kissed me on the dancefloor when we met. Hows things?"
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No good with that answer. You are cutting off the point of conversation and opening up a new one which she won't care about. You have to keep it going and keep talking to her

"hiya how do i know u coz i know ur face and not sure where from?"

"Hello. I usually have a good memory about these things but I can't seem to place you either. Where are you from?"

Leave it open for her to come to you. Talk about it a little bit. Argue about it a little bit. Once you give a definite answer and shut it down, she'll really have no reason to come back.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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