"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Any one any good on facebook?

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This girl added me on facebook and sent me this message.

"hiya how do i know u coz i know ur face and not sure where from? :)"

She knows me from when I was about 19 at a club. I just grabbed her when I was dancing made out with her a few times. And think i fingered her on the dance floor then left her and went off to get wasted with my mates.

This was years and years ago but I have a very good memory. She not overly attractive but doable. Im pretty hopeless at picking women up on the internet but I might give this one a shot.

Any advise on a first message.

I was gonna put

"Yes I can remember you from "the club". I think you kissed me on the dancefloor when we met. Hows things?"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hahaha . Im so tempted to put that purely for the reaction!
 

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Evolve said:
This girl added me on facebook and sent me this message.

"hiya how do i know u coz i know ur face and not sure where from? :)"

She knows me from when I was about 19 at a club. I just grabbed her when I was dancing made out with her a few times. And think i fingered her on the dance floor then left her and went off to get wasted with my mates.

This was years and years ago but I have a very good memory. She not overly attractive but doable. Im pretty hopeless at picking women up on the internet but I might give this one a shot.

Any advise on a first message.

I was gonna put

"Yes I can remember you from "the club". I think you kissed me on the dancefloor when we met. Hows things?"
No good with that answer. You are cutting off the point of conversation and opening up a new one which she won't care about. You have to keep it going and keep talking to her

"hiya how do i know u coz i know ur face and not sure where from?"

"Hello. I usually have a good memory about these things but I can't seem to place you either. Where are you from?"

Leave it open for her to come to you. Talk about it a little bit. Argue about it a little bit. Once you give a definite answer and shut it down, she'll really have no reason to come back.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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