"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Any of you guys make content with your girl/partner(s)?

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I know alot of guys hate the whole concept and idea of OF.. but I"ve found it to be a great medium to share the sexy content we make with others.. I used to be on forums and on an app called kik where people got together to share their homemade clips and videos.. but it felt super sleazy especially seeing some of the slobs on there who would be watching your stuff.. OF feels a bit more professional and you can get paid for your content.. which is nice. I have a few pages on there. The only downside is, they do take your identity and you have to utilize a photoid to verify yourself.. but your privacy is still protected. I think for some of us this is the closest we can feel to pornstars without having to put ourselves completely out there.

The potential is also crazy... such as collaborations with other people who do OF, networking, prospecting, etc. Out of the 3 accounts I run, I'm generating $2500 a month.. Might not sound like anything to some but.. its basically getting paid to make content with my sloots.

When I show women I have an OF, it really seems to excite their curiosity. I've had a girl contact me who told me she didn't pay much mind ot me until I told her my oF, and one night out of curiosity she checked it out as she also is on OF, and it made her curious to talk to me.. I'm now talking to her about collaborating on content ... wild.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Boy I learn something new everyday! ;-) You would make the ole Hedgehog proud. Keeping Ron's dream alive.
If it’s the Ron I’m thinking of, he went to my high school.
 

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Boy I learn something new everyday! ;-) You would make the ole Hedgehog proud. Keeping Ron's dream alive.
haha yeah its actually funny when I have women over and they're like "why do you have tripods in here?" .. i just tell them "I make content" and leave it at that. if they prod more, I'm honest with them. To be fair though they're not just for OF content.. I own a business and I shoot other type of content as well. Most of the OF content im not in the video anyways unless i shoot it POV style. I'm not THAT confident or, shameless to put myself out there to that extent. Rather the pages be stricly the girls, and I think the subscribers prefer it that way.. Theres only about 2-3 videos of me where you can see most of my body, head out of angle.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I know alot of guys hate the whole concept and idea of OF.. but I"ve found it to be a great medium to share the sexy content we make with others.. I used to be on forums and on an app called kik where people got together to share their homemade clips and videos.. but it felt super sleazy especially seeing some of the slobs on there who would be watching your stuff.. OF feels a bit more professional and you can get paid for your content.. which is nice. I have a few pages on there. The only downside is, they do take your identity and you have to utilize a photoid to verify yourself.. but your privacy is still protected. I think for some of us this is the closest we can feel to pornstars without having to put ourselves completely out there.

The potential is also crazy... such as collaborations with other people who do OF, networking, prospecting, etc. Out of the 3 accounts I run, I'm generating $2500 a month.. Might not sound like anything to some but.. its basically getting paid to make content with my sloots.

When I show women I have an OF, it really seems to excite their curiosity. I've had a girl contact me who told me she didn't pay much mind ot me until I told her my oF, and one night out of curiosity she checked it out as she also is on OF, and it made her curious to talk to me.. I'm now talking to her about collaborating on content ... wild.
Yes, I've filmed a couple of "sex tapes" in the past. No, I didn't release them publicly
 

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Yes, I've filmed a couple of "sex tapes" in the past. No, I didn't release them publicly
Nice. The real beauty of OF is , you don't really need to put out a sex tape... Most of what I post is just pictures of the girls I work with and 30 second - 3 minute video clips. I had a 20 minute video on there when I first started but I learned short and sweet is better..

I know i probably make it soudn easy but its alot of work in all honesty.. the hardest part being consistently uploading stuff for the marketing effort. Without marketing, its not as easy to get discovered/get subscriptions. One of the girls I work with she was already on the platform doign cooking stuff.. it was a weird transition for her subs to start seeing sexual content but she mostly had dudes subbed to her anyways and the small foundation of subs she had helped push her but we still had to market her alot via IG and X. I'll eventually hire virtual assistants to help me with alot of the stuff though.. because I can see this being an avenue to alot of revenue if we continue.. the subs keep rising by the day .
 

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Post your backdrop without anyone included. Other forum members can help to get things in order.

I’m sure you have already done this, since you invested in photography……….not calling out anything, but do you have a certain outfit for these women to try on?
 

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If it’s the Ron I’m thinking of, he went to my high school.
Thanks for the likes on this post.


“Other notable alumni include adult film star Ron Jeremy, who has become a pop culture icon, appearing in hundreds of films and numerous reality television shows. James McBride, author of the best selling memoir "The Color of Water" also attended Cardozo.
 

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Post your backdrop without anyone included. Other forum members can help to get things in order.

I’m sure you have already done this, since you invested in photography……….not calling out anything, but do you have a certain outfit for these women to try on?
I don't really use a backdrop but i did buy some lighting equipment and some stuff you can consider backdropish-- though i haven't used it much.. only the lighting. and I didn't invest too much in photography just a good beginners camera (Canon EOS Rebel T7 with a few lenses) and the rest is done on an iphone 16 pro max, basic tripod, and dji osmo pocket 3. We make more content on the iphone 16 pro max and dji osmo pocket 3 than the canon tbh. and its alot more than just a certain outfit, its alot of diff oufits.. but its not hard, alot of it is just regular clothes they own-- its more about the presentation of how they wear it, and what the content is about. you can do alot with just bikinis, skirts, panties, lingerie, yoga pants that most girls already own-- but i do shop for new **** all the time. its not too hard but just another part of the whole thing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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