"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Any of you guys make content with your girl/partner(s)?

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I know alot of guys hate the whole concept and idea of OF.. but I"ve found it to be a great medium to share the sexy content we make with others.. I used to be on forums and on an app called kik where people got together to share their homemade clips and videos.. but it felt super sleazy especially seeing some of the slobs on there who would be watching your stuff.. OF feels a bit more professional and you can get paid for your content.. which is nice. I have a few pages on there. The only downside is, they do take your identity and you have to utilize a photoid to verify yourself.. but your privacy is still protected. I think for some of us this is the closest we can feel to pornstars without having to put ourselves completely out there.

The potential is also crazy... such as collaborations with other people who do OF, networking, prospecting, etc. Out of the 3 accounts I run, I'm generating $2500 a month.. Might not sound like anything to some but.. its basically getting paid to make content with my sloots.

When I show women I have an OF, it really seems to excite their curiosity. I've had a girl contact me who told me she didn't pay much mind ot me until I told her my oF, and one night out of curiosity she checked it out as she also is on OF, and it made her curious to talk to me.. I'm now talking to her about collaborating on content ... wild.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Boy I learn something new everyday! ;-) You would make the ole Hedgehog proud. Keeping Ron's dream alive.
If it’s the Ron I’m thinking of, he went to my high school.
 

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Boy I learn something new everyday! ;-) You would make the ole Hedgehog proud. Keeping Ron's dream alive.
haha yeah its actually funny when I have women over and they're like "why do you have tripods in here?" .. i just tell them "I make content" and leave it at that. if they prod more, I'm honest with them. To be fair though they're not just for OF content.. I own a business and I shoot other type of content as well. Most of the OF content im not in the video anyways unless i shoot it POV style. I'm not THAT confident or, shameless to put myself out there to that extent. Rather the pages be stricly the girls, and I think the subscribers prefer it that way.. Theres only about 2-3 videos of me where you can see most of my body, head out of angle.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know alot of guys hate the whole concept and idea of OF.. but I"ve found it to be a great medium to share the sexy content we make with others.. I used to be on forums and on an app called kik where people got together to share their homemade clips and videos.. but it felt super sleazy especially seeing some of the slobs on there who would be watching your stuff.. OF feels a bit more professional and you can get paid for your content.. which is nice. I have a few pages on there. The only downside is, they do take your identity and you have to utilize a photoid to verify yourself.. but your privacy is still protected. I think for some of us this is the closest we can feel to pornstars without having to put ourselves completely out there.

The potential is also crazy... such as collaborations with other people who do OF, networking, prospecting, etc. Out of the 3 accounts I run, I'm generating $2500 a month.. Might not sound like anything to some but.. its basically getting paid to make content with my sloots.

When I show women I have an OF, it really seems to excite their curiosity. I've had a girl contact me who told me she didn't pay much mind ot me until I told her my oF, and one night out of curiosity she checked it out as she also is on OF, and it made her curious to talk to me.. I'm now talking to her about collaborating on content ... wild.
Yes, I've filmed a couple of "sex tapes" in the past. No, I didn't release them publicly
 

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Nice. The real beauty of OF is , you don't really need to put out a sex tape... Most of what I post is just pictures of the girls I work with and 30 second - 3 minute video clips. I had a 20 minute video on there when I first started but I learned short and sweet is better..

I know i probably make it soudn easy but its alot of work in all honesty.. the hardest part being consistently uploading stuff for the marketing effort. Without marketing, its not as easy to get discovered/get subscriptions. One of the girls I work with she was already on the platform doign cooking stuff.. it was a weird transition for her subs to start seeing sexual content but she mostly had dudes subbed to her anyways and the small foundation of subs she had helped push her but we still had to market her alot via IG and X. I'll eventually hire virtual assistants to help me with alot of the stuff though.. because I can see this being an avenue to alot of revenue if we continue.. the subs keep rising by the day .
 

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Post your backdrop without anyone included. Other forum members can help to get things in order.

I’m sure you have already done this, since you invested in photography……….not calling out anything, but do you have a certain outfit for these women to try on?
 

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If it’s the Ron I’m thinking of, he went to my high school.
Thanks for the likes on this post.


“Other notable alumni include adult film star Ron Jeremy, who has become a pop culture icon, appearing in hundreds of films and numerous reality television shows. James McBride, author of the best selling memoir "The Color of Water" also attended Cardozo.
 

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Post your backdrop without anyone included. Other forum members can help to get things in order.

I’m sure you have already done this, since you invested in photography……….not calling out anything, but do you have a certain outfit for these women to try on?
I don't really use a backdrop but i did buy some lighting equipment and some stuff you can consider backdropish-- though i haven't used it much.. only the lighting. and I didn't invest too much in photography just a good beginners camera (Canon EOS Rebel T7 with a few lenses) and the rest is done on an iphone 16 pro max, basic tripod, and dji osmo pocket 3. We make more content on the iphone 16 pro max and dji osmo pocket 3 than the canon tbh. and its alot more than just a certain outfit, its alot of diff oufits.. but its not hard, alot of it is just regular clothes they own-- its more about the presentation of how they wear it, and what the content is about. you can do alot with just bikinis, skirts, panties, lingerie, yoga pants that most girls already own-- but i do shop for new **** all the time. its not too hard but just another part of the whole thing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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