"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Any of you guys into Harleys?

Atom Smasher

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Just bought a used Sporty, only 5,000 miles, because it's strangely easy on my back (had surgery in June).

I figure it's the middle of December, I just got out of back surgery... perfect time to buy a motorcycle...

I've been riding a bare-bones GoldWing (no fairings, just a raw frame) and a Honda all these years, but both those bikes hurt my back so it's time to retire them.

Anyone else here into Harleys?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I was looking at one last month, but just couldn't do it. They are so popular that the prices never seem to drop below a couple thousand, even for older bikes.

Dealerships rape you on maintenance. Mine wants $350 for an oil change. If I had one, I would invest in a shop manual, some sort of stand to hold it upright while you work on it, and whatever other specialty tools the bike might require.

On the upside, they are easy to re-sell, comfy, and women love them. :up:
 

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i always wanted to have one.that and a remington.

ill buy one as soon as i get back to canada.till then im stuck here with public transport :(
 

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Yes, they do retain their value. I bought a 2001, mint condition with only a little over 5,000 miles on it. The same used bike at a dealership would have cost me an additional $2,000. $350 for an oil change, that's insane!

Fortunately I can do my own maintenance. I need to get the shop manual. I already have a motorcycle jack to lift it up.

You're not kidding about the female attraction factor. I notice that just talking about it gets women all hot & bothered.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No, definitely not. We just got another 3 inches of snow today.
 

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I tried with Harley, and I really wanted to buy an American motorcycle, but the prices are just out of control, and I was warned by actual Harley owners to stay away. Crazy. So I now have a VStar. It's fun, it was at a great price (brand new), and it's fuel injected. Rides great and the way I see it is that riding is riding. The bike is whatever you can afford/like.
 

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For what it's worth, Sonny Barger, the founder of Hell Angels, said that he only rides a Harley because it's one of the rules of being in a motorcycle gang and that in terms of workmanship, they are basically crap. If even Hells Angels don't like Harley, it really does say something about those bikes.
 
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