"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Any of you guys into Harleys?

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Just bought a used Sporty, only 5,000 miles, because it's strangely easy on my back (had surgery in June).

I figure it's the middle of December, I just got out of back surgery... perfect time to buy a motorcycle...

I've been riding a bare-bones GoldWing (no fairings, just a raw frame) and a Honda all these years, but both those bikes hurt my back so it's time to retire them.

Anyone else here into Harleys?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I was looking at one last month, but just couldn't do it. They are so popular that the prices never seem to drop below a couple thousand, even for older bikes.

Dealerships rape you on maintenance. Mine wants $350 for an oil change. If I had one, I would invest in a shop manual, some sort of stand to hold it upright while you work on it, and whatever other specialty tools the bike might require.

On the upside, they are easy to re-sell, comfy, and women love them. :up:
 

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i always wanted to have one.that and a remington.

ill buy one as soon as i get back to canada.till then im stuck here with public transport :(
 

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Yes, they do retain their value. I bought a 2001, mint condition with only a little over 5,000 miles on it. The same used bike at a dealership would have cost me an additional $2,000. $350 for an oil change, that's insane!

Fortunately I can do my own maintenance. I need to get the shop manual. I already have a motorcycle jack to lift it up.

You're not kidding about the female attraction factor. I notice that just talking about it gets women all hot & bothered.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No, definitely not. We just got another 3 inches of snow today.
 

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I tried with Harley, and I really wanted to buy an American motorcycle, but the prices are just out of control, and I was warned by actual Harley owners to stay away. Crazy. So I now have a VStar. It's fun, it was at a great price (brand new), and it's fuel injected. Rides great and the way I see it is that riding is riding. The bike is whatever you can afford/like.
 

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For what it's worth, Sonny Barger, the founder of Hell Angels, said that he only rides a Harley because it's one of the rules of being in a motorcycle gang and that in terms of workmanship, they are basically crap. If even Hells Angels don't like Harley, it really does say something about those bikes.
 
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