"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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any of you guys go straight into the sex without fingering/licking?

LoneWolf

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i find myself not playing with a girls vagina much, just rubbing it a bit maybe before we do it but not much. mostly just touch their body all over with my hands and then they seem wet enough anyway so i just stick it in. i know almost every guy is a big fan of the vagina with the whole licking out and stuff. i just find other ways to get them off. what do you guys do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bible_Belt

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All that matters is that she's wet. Younger and hornier women tend to get wet more easily. Medications like allergy and antihistamine meds are made to dry up nasal cavaties, but if she's on them, they also dry up other cavities. Just use lube - it's wetness on tap.
 

Kenny Powers

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but be careful, if she says she can't get wet (probably will give an excuse) and needs lube you might have yourself a trannie good sir. That's one of the few remaining ways to tell - sign of the times i guess.

Oh and for those of you who are wondering, i learned this from Tucker Max not personal experience thank god :)
 

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Yeah, sometimes I do. Depends on what mood I'm in, I guess. Sometimes it just turns into a 69 session. Sometimes it's minimal foreplay. Whatever, as long as it's fun.
 

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It depends on the girl. Some girls want 15 minutes of oral sex performed on them. Some don't like it at all. Some like digital penetration, others hate it. Get to know what she likes first.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Allurre

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Doesn't really matter what you do. Every girl is different, has different preferences, and different physiological reactions.

Some girls get off when you talk dirty to them. Some when you physical stimulate certain parts of their body (it could even be their KNEE CAP), who knows.

Find out what turns her on, just ask her, and you'll know how to proceed.
 
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