"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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any of you guys go straight into the sex without fingering/licking?

LoneWolf

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i find myself not playing with a girls vagina much, just rubbing it a bit maybe before we do it but not much. mostly just touch their body all over with my hands and then they seem wet enough anyway so i just stick it in. i know almost every guy is a big fan of the vagina with the whole licking out and stuff. i just find other ways to get them off. what do you guys do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bible_Belt

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All that matters is that she's wet. Younger and hornier women tend to get wet more easily. Medications like allergy and antihistamine meds are made to dry up nasal cavaties, but if she's on them, they also dry up other cavities. Just use lube - it's wetness on tap.
 

Kenny Powers

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but be careful, if she says she can't get wet (probably will give an excuse) and needs lube you might have yourself a trannie good sir. That's one of the few remaining ways to tell - sign of the times i guess.

Oh and for those of you who are wondering, i learned this from Tucker Max not personal experience thank god :)
 

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Yeah, sometimes I do. Depends on what mood I'm in, I guess. Sometimes it just turns into a 69 session. Sometimes it's minimal foreplay. Whatever, as long as it's fun.
 

bigneil

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It depends on the girl. Some girls want 15 minutes of oral sex performed on them. Some don't like it at all. Some like digital penetration, others hate it. Get to know what she likes first.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Allurre

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Doesn't really matter what you do. Every girl is different, has different preferences, and different physiological reactions.

Some girls get off when you talk dirty to them. Some when you physical stimulate certain parts of their body (it could even be their KNEE CAP), who knows.

Find out what turns her on, just ask her, and you'll know how to proceed.
 
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