"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Any of you got date ideas?

TheWanderer

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First of all, ya I saw this section in the bible, but I'm just wondering if any of you have any better ideas. If you read my past posts, you know this will be my 3rd date with this hb9. Well, I want something to do that'll require lots of physical contact and kino, you know, so I can warm her up for later in the evening when I'll make my move. Oh ya, and if you read my last post, I'm pretty positive I've got a green light to make a move, but I'm just looking for something fun to do before this that will kind of set the mood.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Take her out and pay alot of money. And make sure you are constantly complimenting her. Also, buu folowers and choclates. Tell her she is so great and that youve never been with such a great girl.
 

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Action dates are ALWAYS good, but things such as mini golf or ice skating (with ice skating being my number 1 choice) are good ways to use kino. Skating especially, even more so if they dont know how to skate :D

Actions dates! Use your imagination!
 

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Originally posted by This Times For Real
Take her out and pay alot of money. And make sure you are constantly complimenting her. Also, buu folowers and choclates. Tell her she is so great and that youve never been with such a great girl.

Is that sarcasm!? Cus I don't appreciate your sarcasm!
 

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yeah take her out on action dates. Mini-golf, Skating, amusement park if you live close enough or feel like going that day. Just do something fun and enjoyable. Have fun with her.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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USE THE DAMN SEARCH FUNCTION!!!

I know, I know, you probably thought that a dating and seduction forum that's been around for years had never discussed the topic of where to actually go on a date. I can understand how you might think this. So, I forgive you for being to damn stupid to use the search function.
 

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hey buddy, learn to read better. I said I looked at the part of the bible that talks about this, and I searched too, but you never know when someone's gonna have a new and great idea.
 

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Originally posted by TheWanderer
hey buddy, learn to read better. I said I looked at the part of the bible that talks about this, and I searched too, but you never know when someone's gonna have a new and great idea.
Why don't you learn to read better?

I didn't say **** about the bible.

Also, did you happen to notice that all of the posts you searched had the exact same information in them?

Did you notice that the people who replied are just vomiting it back at you?

Nobody ever has any new ideas.
 

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If you want to get physical with her, just take her out on an action date. Depending on where you live, either ice skating, amusement parks, or somewhere else like that. Also, make sure you're going to get something outta this date since you'll prolly have to spend a lil money ;]
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by This Times For Real
Whoa dawg chill out Im jus playin around.
haha, its cool, my bad........didn't know if you were playing around or just being an ass, lol.

Ultimate: whatever....i don't care
 
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The Times for Real... that was one of the most pointless responses I have seen. First of all, its not original because people do that all the time, and second of all, it had nothing to do with the subject. Usually when people make a response like that, it is someone asking how to get a girl to go out with them or something, he is just asking for date posssibilities, if you are gonna attempt to be funny at least make sure it still has something to do with the post.
 

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Prepared Date

What i have is a prepared date.( they said this in an earlyier post)
For example you wont to go to a resturant. Go there an hour before the date alone. and talk to the manager, and tell him, you are having a date, and organize something. Like a skit or something.
Then when the date starts, you walk in there all confident, you talk to the manager like its all cool. The girl will be pretty impressed. Trust me i did this once and it ended out pretty good. I dont know if it answeres your ? ,but I hope it helps.
 

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search for a post in either the DJ discuccion or tips section...it might be in the bible - but it's like 100+ date ideas and they're really original and great. Look it up.
 
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